Boundaries: Training Your Clients in Assertiveness Skills
The function of much of therapy is to put clients firmly in charge of their own lives. But if they can’t be assertive, their lives are not truly their own.
Much of the time, clients come into the therapy room feeling caught in painful, intractable conflicts with those around them that leave them feeling hurt, angry, and helpless. And more often than not, these situations persist because clients are attempting the impossible:
They are trying to change what everyone else is doing.
And it doesn’t work.
But being assertive doesn’t mean attempting to control the behavior of others — it’s about controlling our own actions.
By helping clients develop their assertiveness skills, you can help them build healthy communication styles, stand their ground and become less buffeted by what everyone else expects of them, and effectively navigate conflicts in their relationships with less hostility.
And you can teach them how to live and interact with other people without losing themselves in the process.
Most clinicians have been shown the necessity and value of assertiveness, healthy communication, and boundaries at some point in their education. However, most clinical programs include little or no instruction on how to actually build assertiveness skills.
Essentially, you’ve probably been taught the rationale, but often not the technique.
That’s why we’re so pleased to introduce this new live, online course: Boundaries: Training Your Clients in Assertiveness Skills — a course designed to teach you the specific skills involved in assertive communication and how to help your clients master those skills.
About the Course
Inside the course, expert trainer, psychologist, and author of the Assertiveness Workbook, Randy J. Paterson, PhD., will teach you not only the importance of assertiveness skills, but how to impart those skills to your clients in an experiential way.
You’ll explore the four basic styles of communication (assertive, passive, aggressive, passive-aggressive, plus a fifth: passive-to-aggressive alternator) and the motives and beliefs that drive them. You’ll learn about specific barriers that prevent clients and clinicians alike from using an assertive style, including:
- How stress can pull people away from assertive responding
- Social history and the unchanging, rigid expectations for others to act “how they always have”
- The ways that beliefs — such as “assertive people are obnoxious” or “politeness means being a pushover” — shape behavior
And over 4 experiential sessions, you’ll practice specific action-oriented strategies to overcome those barriers. With these tools, clients will be able to recognize their own communication style and identify what is stopping them from being assertive.
With the techniques you’ll gain from this course, you’ll be able to train your clients to navigate boundary-challenging scenarios — such as saying “no,” giving and receiving feedback, making requests, and dealing with conflict — while feeling less threatened and staying true to themselves. And you’ll be able to help clients establish and maintain good interpersonal boundaries and cultivate more fulfilling relationships.
Throughout the course, you will be invited to perform the exercises in your own life as a way to fully embrace the material and prepare to apply it in a clinical setting. And you may discover how these skills can benefit you and your practice as well.
Join us for this important new online course, and learn to help your clients develop the essential assertiveness skills they need to take back control of their own life.
This training is worth 8 CE credit hours if attended live. While we can only provide CE to those who are present – i.e. logged in – for all live sessions, Praxis webinars are recorded for later viewing. Registrants may access these recordings at any time for up to nine months from the conclusion of the training to which they pertain.
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Session 1 | September 7, 2022, 1 PM—3 PM EDT
- Indications and Contradictions
- Training Strategies for Individual Therapy
Session 2 | September 14, 2022, 1 PM—3 PM EDT
- Stress-related Barriers
- The Assertive Mindset
Session 3 | September 21, 2022, 1 PM—3 PM EDT
- Giving and Receiving Positive Feedback
- Giving Corrective Feedback
Session 4 | September 28, 2022, 1 PM—3 PM EDT
- Making Requests
- Coping with Confrontation
Participants will be able to:
- Identify the four basic communication styles in action – and teach this recognition to clients.
- Discuss ways to explore with clients the barriers (personal and interactional) that prevent them from using assertiveness skills more effectively.
- Name the eight types of interaction
- Identify ways to train clients in the skills involved in assertive communication in eight types of interaction
- Discuss how to use specific experiential training skills in session with clients, including modeling, rehearsal, role reversal, and shaping.
Please review complete CE and conflict-of-interest disclosure information prior to registering. This live online course is sponsored by Praxis Continuing Education and Training and is approved for 8 CE Hours by the following listed below. There was no commercial support for this activity. None of the planners or presenters for this educational activity have relevant financial relationship(s) to disclose with ineligible companies whose primary business is producing, marketing, selling, re-selling, or distributing healthcare products used by or on patients.
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Joint Accreditation: In support of improving patient care, Praxis Continuing Education and Training, Inc is jointly accredited by the Accreditation Council for Continuing Medical Education (ACCME), the Accreditation Council for Pharmacy Education (ACPE), and the American Nurses Credentialing Center (ANCC), to provide continuing education for the healthcare team.
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