ACT for Grief and End-of-Life

How can people live with intention and vibrancy when they stand to lose someone they love — or perhaps even their own life?

The cultural messages we receive about death don’t often equip us to answer that question. We’re taught not to talk about it, to treat it as taboo, and to guard ourselves against the pain it can cause.

So, while loss is a reality of human experience, few people have effective tools for coping when they encounter it.

They often get stuck worrying about the future, or caught ruminating on the past. They become unmoored from the present moment, where life is really lived and where meaning and vitality lie.

For the same cultural reasons, most clinicians have little training in how to support those facing this issue.

Even when clients come in with the express purpose of processing the death of a loved one or dealing with news of their own life-threatening diagnosis, clinicians often struggle to see a way forward.

Many find themselves colluding with broader cultural messages to circumvent the content or protect the client from their feelings.

They might avoid bringing it up in sessions or implicitly encourage the client to distract themselves from thinking about it. Or, on the other hand, they may try to help the client see the bright side or reasons why they shouldn’t be afraid.

These courses of action are well-intentioned, but they’re aimed at achieving a specific outcome: changing how the client feels about their situation.

Not only does this kind of approach rarely work — it’s also not required in order for the client to live with more intention and vitality when it matters most.

When the focus is instead on process, it allows therapy to transcend the pursuit of momentary relief, helping clients take intentional actions that support their values and make life vibrant, even in the face of loss.

Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) offers a process-based approach with these goals in mind. Using the model, clinicians can help clients develop important skills that allow them to:

• Discriminate between their thoughts and feelings about death and the actual event of death itself, so they can spend less time trapped in their mind and more time living in the here and now
• Process grief and other difficult experiences by making space for them rather than engaging in avoidant behaviors, such as cycles of worry or dwelling on past choices
• Explore how to live meaningfully each day when time is short or they’ve lost someone they love instead of spending weeks, months, or even years waiting to feel differently about a painful situation

These are some of the main skills you’ll learn how to teach in ACT for Grief and End-of-Life, a live online course taught by Dr. Jennifer Gregg.

With the tools and process-based approach you’ll learn, you can help clients navigate the toughest moments of their lives while encouraging them to contact meaning and vitality in every day.

About ACT for Grief and End-of-Life

ACT for Grief and End-of-Life offers an uplifting vision of how to help those facing loss connect with purpose and vibrancy in their lives. 

Whether a client is facing anxiety about their own death, anticipating the death of a loved one, or finding their way after a loss, you’ll learn how to take a compassionate, effective, and process-based approach to treatment.

In 4 live online sessions, Dr. Gregg will take ACT skills and boil them down to their most essential elements so you’ll have a better understanding of how to work with the various parts of the model in a way that’s sensitive to this specific context. This will allow you to:

• Help clients develop psychological flexibility skills without requiring them to talk about death 
• Be braver and more confident when working with clients facing loss
• Have a better understanding of the possibilities open to you and your clients when working in this area — including with those experiencing complicated grief
• Facilitate deeper work while respecting the client’s boundaries and supporting a stronger therapeutic relationship
• Give clients tools to take valued actions in the present moment even in the face of fear, grief, difficult stories about what might have been, or other challenging experiences

Throughout the training, you’ll engage in breakout group discussions and exercises and receive worksheets that can provide structure for conversations with clients who are particularly resistant to talking about loss. 

You’ll also engage in experiential exercises that will invite you to examine your own thoughts, stories, and fears around death, giving you a personal understanding of the ACT work as well as a touchstone for empathizing with what clients might be experiencing.

Once you’ve completed the course, you’ll have a much clearer way forward with clients experiencing loss and a specific set of tools for helping them connect with the here and now, giving them an opportunity to be proud of how they show up each day for their values.

This training offers 8 CE hours if attended live. We can only provide CE to those who are present via Zoom for the live sessions. However, the sessions will be recorded and available to watch later. Registrants may access these recordings at any time for up to nine months after the live training ends.

Before enrolling, please review conflict of interest disclosures and complete CE information here.